If Im seeing the chart correctly in my head and hes a Cap rising Sagittarius is ruling over the 12th house.Hmm..
I dont have much experience with the 12th house, but from what I know of it hes emotionally going to be a little distant. Hes going to like his space.
Scorpio sits over the 11th house
The 11th house of networking and social standings.
Having Mars, Mercury, and Venus here hes probably going to really like his friends. It will probably seem like hes going to put the best of his friends before any relationship. Id be careful giving any kind of ultimatum, its either me or them kind of deal.
Hes going to be very goal oriented. Id find out what his goals and dreams are and slowly ease my way into helping him do that.
Youll probably be on up the list of people he appreciates in his life.
So as far as attention goes Id give his hopes, dreams, and goals the attention more so than hanging all over him, hugging and kissing.